To Attract Men Learn the New Dating Rules
If men aren’t as attracted to you as you would like them to be it could be that you are playing the attraction and dating game with an old set of worn out rules.
What rules am I talking about? Well for a very long time, and right up until only a few years ago, men and women had clearly defined roles in life and in courtship.
You know of course that less than 100 years ago women were not even allowed to vote. Only men could vote and make important decisions. Men were the leaders and doers and women were the followers.
These same rules applied to dating, courtship and marriage. Men always took the lead. A man could approach a woman he was interested in, a woman never did so and was expected to wait to be approached. Even after a date a woman would never suggest that they go out again. She was expected to wait by the phone instead.
But all those old rules are gone now. Love, dating and courtship are pretty much a free-for-all these days and yet many women, maybe you, still feel constrained by the old do and don’ts of dating.
The fact is, you may be playing by the old rules and not even know you’re doing it. You may feel that you’re a free spirit doing things your own way but many women, and guys too, are just a bit intimidated by the lack of structure in dating today and with out even realizing they are doing so, they revert to the old limiting ways of doing things.
If you want to attract more men, more deeply then you ever have before you need to get rid of the old restrictive thoughts and dating rules and embrace the new.
Easy to say, not so easy to do. I’m going to write more about this subject in the future but if you want to know how to start attracting more men than you ever thought possible right now, then I strongly suggest you take a close look at this amazing six-step formula by my friend Amy Waterman. She has looked very closely at this subject and can show you things like:
- How to be irresistible now
- The essential tools every modern woman needs in a modern dating world
- Keys to creating instant attraction
- How to authentically get and keep his attention
- No-fail topics to talk about with any man
- Deadly dating mistakes that turn men off
Her work is a wonderful example of just how to take full advantage of this brave new dating world we’re in. You can read more about how to really attract men at her site.
Good Luck
Molly
