Good News Can Be Bad News When Working To Get Your Ex Back
At first glance a long talk with your ex two weeks after the break up may seem like super good news.
But maybe it isn’t really. In this video the author of The Magic of Making Up system looks at case studies of people who have taken a conversation as a sure sign that their ex wants to get back together, and later regretted making this mistake.
The Magic of Making Up will work for you if you let it. Follow the system, don’t take shortcuts and you’ll have the best possible chance of getting your ex back.
Read more about the book on my Magic of Making Up review page.
Let The Break Up Happen – And Get Your Ex Back
In this video from TW Jackson he talks about the first moves you should make in your campaign to get your ex back.
Some of this may really go against the grain for you but believe me, it really works.
Some of you may have already bombarded your ex with phone calls and texts and emails. This is not a good thing to do - but – all is not lost. T Dub gives you a great method for wiping the slate clean and starting over again even if you were a bit panicky at first and tried to contact your ex when you shouldn’t have.
The Magic of Making Up is loaded with this kind of solid down-home advice for getting your ex back. You can learn more about The Magic of Making Up by reading my review.
Does No Contact Work to Get Your Ex Back?
Holding back and resisting the temptation to call or text your ex is a key strategy to get your ex back. The question is does it work – does no contact work to get your ex back?
The answer is yes and no.
On the “Yes” side, having no contact with your ex for a certain amount of time will give your ex space and time to figure out what they really feel about you, and life without you.
In particular, to discover (perhaps to their surprise) how much they miss you as good memories resurface and problems to fall into perspective.
Keep the Lines of Communication Open With Your Ex
Contact with your ex – how much and when - is a tricky issue that needs to be handled carefully if you are going to succeed at getting back with your ex.
In looking for advice about communication with your ex, you’ve probably already learned that the recommended course of action is to have no contact with your ex at all. But when you are anxious to get your ex back and take steps towards making it a reality, it’s advice that’s difficult to take. In practice, the situation is no so black-and-white. You must also keep the lines of communication open with your ex.
When Should You Contact Your Ex?
Many aspects of getting back with an ex can test your patience. Waiting for the right time to contact your ex is one of them! The big question is, when should you contact your ex - how long should you wait? It’s a good question. How long you wait could improve or ruin your chances of getting back with your ex.
Contact your ex too soon and you risk several things:
Firstly, rejection. The closer the time is to your break up, the more likely it is that your ex is still feeling a potent mix of strong and perhaps conflicting emotions - anger, resentment, sadness, regret - or are not sure how they really feel.
Signs Your Ex Still Loves You
You want to get your ex back. This much you know with certainty but what are your chances - what are the signs that your ex still loves you too?
Working out whether your ex still loves you is a minefield of uncertainty - of potential hurt and disappointment and embarrassment. Perhaps your ex does still love you but they’re doing their best to hide it - there are no signs at all. Perhaps they don’t, even though all the signs say they do.
The articles below aim to clear the confusion so you can be more certain of what your ex really feels - whether they really do still love you - and your chances of getting back together.
